There are certain summers that stick with you—not because everything went smoothly, but because life had a way of handing you exactly the lessons you needed. My internship in the state of Washington, the summer of 1980, was one of those. Back then, I was a junior at Iowa State, trying to line up all the things I thought would guarantee a good job after graduation: solid grades, some campus involvement, and most importantly, that golden ticket on any engineering résumé—an internship in your field. So I spent the spring sending out application after application, collecting a thick stack of rejection letters in return. It became routine enough that some days I’d find myself laughing at how efficiently companies could say “No thanks.” My dorm room wall was full of “flush letters” and I treated it like it was a badge of honor.
Creating Your Beautiful Life
Writing a Will
Creating Your Beautiful Life
Writing a Will
Estate planning might not be at the top of your list of things to do, but it's an essential step in ensuring that your assets are distributed according to your wishes. Having a will is crucial, regardless of your marital status or whether you have children. A will provides a clear, legal framework for what happens to your property after you die. Without a will, the distribution of your assets is left to the state's laws, which might not align with your intentions. In this blog, we'll explore why it's essential to have a will and the risks of dying without one.
A will, also known as a last will and testament, is a legal document that outlines your wishes for the distribution of your assets and property after you die. It can also specify guardianship for your children and appoint an executor to manage your estate's affairs. Having a will ensures that your wishes are carried out, reducing the potential for disputes and confusion among your loved ones.
It's easy to think that wills are only for wealthy individuals or those with complex estates. However, everyone can benefit from having a will, and here's why:
Control over your assets - With a will, you have control over how your assets are distributed. You can specify who receives what and in what proportion. Without a will, the state determines the distribution according to intestacy laws, which may not reflect your preferences.
Appointing Guardians for Children - If you have children, a will allows you to appoint a guardian to care for them in the event of your death. Without a will, the court decides who will be their guardian, which might not be the person you would choose.
Reducing Family Conflict - A clear, well-drafted will can help prevent disputes among family members. Without a will, there's a greater chance of disagreements over who inherits what, leading to strained relationships and costly legal battles.
Appointing an Executor - An executor is responsible for managing your estate, paying off debts, and distributing assets according to your will. By appointing an executor, you ensure that someone you trust oversees this process. Without a will, the court appoints an administrator, who may not know your wishes.
Supporting Charitable Causes - A will allows you to leave a portion of your estate to charitable organizations or causes that matter to you. Without a will, your assets are distributed according to state laws, which may not include charitable contributions.
Planning for Business Interests - If you own a business, a will can specify what happens to your business interests after you pass away. Without a will, the future of your business could be uncertain, potentially jeopardizing the livelihoods of employees and business partners.
When someone dies without a will, they are said to have died "intestate." This means that state laws determine how their assets are distributed. Here are some potential risks of dying intestate:
Unintended Heirs - Intestacy laws often prioritize spouses and children, but if you're single or don't have children, your assets might go to distant relatives you never intended to inherit. In some cases, the state might even take control of your assets.
Lack of Guardianship Direction - If you have children and no will, the court will decide who becomes their guardian. This decision might not align with your wishes or be the best fit for your children.
Increased Family Conflict - Without a will, the lack of clear instructions can lead to family disputes and legal battles. This not only strains relationships but can also deplete the value of your estate through legal fees and court costs.
Delays in Estate Distribution - When there's no will, the probate process can be more complicated and time-consuming, leading to delays in distributing assets to your heirs.
Missed Opportunities for Charitable Giving - Without a will, you lose the opportunity to support charitable causes or make a lasting impact through philanthropy.
Having a will is an essential part of estate planning, offering you control over your assets and reducing the risk of family conflict. Whether you're single or married, childless or with children, a will provides a clear roadmap for what happens to your property after you die. Without a will, the distribution of your assets is left to state laws, which may not align with your wishes. To ensure your loved ones are cared for and your intentions are met, it's crucial to create a will and keep it updated as your life circumstances change. There are online options to create a will if your situation is not complex, otherwise seek the guidance and counsel of a lawyer that specializes in this area.
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The Internship That Changed Everything
Long Lake Summers
There are seasons in life you don’t see coming—chapters that don’t announce themselves with fanfare, yet settle so deeply into your memory that years later you can still smell the lake water, feel the pull of the tow rope, and hear the hum of a boat engine echoing across a still summer evening. For me, one of those chapters began the moment I graduated from Iowa State in May of 1981 and took my first real job at 3M. I was barely 22, carrying that mix of confidence and cluelessness that only a new graduate can pull off, and ready to step into the adult world.
Hero of the Beach
When I think back to my childhood— maybe around nine years old—there’s a very specific smell, a very specific feeling, that comes rushing back: the scent of ink and old paper from a stack of Marvel comic books. It’s funny how memory works. I can’t remember what I ate last Tuesday, but I can still picture—clear as day—the cover of The Amazing Spider-Man #56 with the Daily Bugle headlines screaming "Spidey joins Doc Ock" sitting on the floor of my bedroom, or the way the corner store rack looked when I spun it, hoping for a new issue of anything with the red-and-blue web-slinger on the front.
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