My adventure with Iowa State University began long before I ever unpacked a suitcase in Larch Hall. In fact, the very first time I “visited” the campus, I barely visited it at all. It was more of a joyride with two of my brothers— Tom, and Dave — at a time in our lives when a drive across state lines counted as both exploration and entertainment. I was young, edging into adulthood, and they were all a few steps ahead of me, showing me what freedom looked like. Early in my senior year at high school I had narrowed my college choices to the University of Minnesota in the Twin Cities, Northwestern University in Evanston, IL, the University of Wisconsin in Madison, WI, Cornell University in Ithaca, NY, and Iowa State in Ames, IA. All great engineering schools. This would be my first college trip.
Creating Your Beautiful Life
Growth Mindset
Creating Your Beautiful Life
Growth Mindset

A growth mindset is not just a concept confined to academic or professional success; it permeates every aspect of our lives, including our health, work, and relationships. The belief in one’s ability to learn and improve, characteristic of a growth mindset, can significantly impact one’s well-being and overall quality of life.
In the realm of work, individuals with a growth mindset approach challenges as opportunities for growth and development. Instead of being discouraged by setbacks or failures, they view them as valuable learning experiences. This resilience enables them to persist in the face of obstacles and adapt to changes in the workplace. As a result, they are more likely to achieve success and satisfaction in their careers.
Moreover, a growth mindset fosters a sense of curiosity and openness to feedback, which are essential for personal and professional growth. By continuously seeking to improve their skills and knowledge, individuals with a growth mindset can stay relevant and competitive in today’s rapidly evolving job market.
In relationships, a growth mindset promotes empathy, understanding, and a willingness to compromise. Rather than viewing conflicts as insurmountable hurdles, individuals with a growth mindset see them as opportunities to strengthen their connections with others. They recognize that constructive communication and mutual support are essential for nurturing healthy relationships. Additionally, a growth mindset encourages individuals to recognize and challenge their own biases and assumptions, fostering more inclusive and supportive social dynamics. By embracing diversity and valuing the perspectives of others, they can cultivate more meaningful and fulfilling relationships.
Furthermore, a growth mindset plays a crucial role in maintaining mental and emotional well-being. It helps individuals develop resilience in the face of adversity and cope effectively with stress. Rather than succumbing to feelings of helplessness or despair, they remain optimistic and proactive in seeking solutions to their problems.
However, it is important to acknowledge that pride and shame can act as both enablers and barriers to maintaining a growth mindset. Healthy pride can motivate individuals to strive for excellence and take pride in their accomplishments. Conversely, excessive pride can lead to arrogance and complacency, hindering personal growth and stifling innovation. Similarly, while healthy shame can serve as a signal to reflect on one’s actions and strive for self-improvement, toxic shame can erode self-esteem and undermine confidence. Therefore, it is essential to cultivate a balanced perspective on pride and shame, recognizing their constructive and destructive potential.
By understanding the role of growth mindset, you can navigate the complexities of personal growth with greater insight and self-awareness.
Pamela is a faith-based life coach. She leads a holistic life transformation program for incarcerated women. She is an artist, speaker, wife, mother, friend, and lover of the environment.
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My Last Week of High School
Most people remember their last week of senior year as a blur of finals, yearbook signatures, and the thrill of freedom just beyond the edge of graduation. I always thought mine would be the same. I pictured a week full of celebration, a little bit of mischief, and a slow fade into summer before heading off to college in the fall. But life had something different in mind for me. My final week as a senior at New Lisbon High School was not about parties, pranks, or planning the future. It was about survival, responsibility, fear, hope, and a kind of growing up that most 18-year-olds never have to face.

